I can see the "Out of memory" process kill events. However, the VPS hasn't even reached 55% usage:
[1938585.387639] [1525206] 0 1525206 2001 608 96 512 0 57344 0 0 mysqld_safe
[1938585.388351] oom-kill:constraint=CONSTRAINT_NONE,nodemask=(null),cpuset=/,mems_allowed=0,global_oom,task_memcg=/user.slice/user-1004.slice/user@1004.service/init.scope,task=systemd,pid=1524699,uid=1004
[1938585.388393] Out of memory: Killed process 1524699 (systemd) total-vm:20288kB, anon-rss:2048kB, file-rss:2944kB, shmem-rss:0kB, UID:1004 pgtables:84kB oom_score_adj:100
[1938587.052877] monarx-agent invoked oom-killer: gfp_mask=0x140cca(GFP_HIGHUSER_MOVABLE|__GFP_COMP), order=0, oom_score_adj=0
[1938587.052923] oom_kill_process+0x118/0x280
[1938587.052932] ? oom_evaluate_task+0x143/0x1e0
[1938587.052940] __alloc_pages_may_oom+0x10c/0x1d0
[1938587.053248] [ pid ] uid tgid total_vm rss rss_anon rss_file rss_shmem pgtables_bytes swapents oom_score_adj name
[1938587.053997] [1525206] 0 1525206 2001 608 96 512 0 57344 0 0 mysqld_safe
[1938587.054633] oom-kill:constraint=CONSTRAINT_NONE,nodemask=(null),cpuset=/,mems_allowed=0,global_oom,task_memcg=/system.slice/mysqld.service,task=mariadbd,pid=1525403,uid=1002
[1938587.054825] Out of memory: Killed process 1525403 (mariadbd) total-vm:2135068kB, anon-rss:217568kB, file-rss:2816kB, shmem-rss:0kB, UID:1002 pgtables:1032kB oom_score_adj:0
[1938603.998079] BT-Task invoked oom-killer: gfp_mask=0x140cca(GFP_HIGHUSER_MOVABLE|__GFP_COMP), order=0, oom_score_adj=0
[1938603.998276] oom_kill_process+0x118/0x280
[1938603.998290] ? oom_evaluate_task+0x143/0x1e0
[1938603.998301] __alloc_pages_may_oom+0x10c/0x1d0
[1938603.998879] [ pid ] uid tgid total_vm rss rss_anon rss_file rss_shmem pgtables_bytes swapents oom_score_adj name
[1938603.999605] [1525206] 0 1525206 2001 576 96 480 0 57344 0 0 mysqld_safe
[1938604.000232] oom-kill:constraint=CONSTRAINT_NONE,nodemask=(null),cpuset=/,mems_allowed=0,global_oom,task_memcg=/system.slice/mysqld.service,task=mariadbd,pid=1528871,uid=1002
[1938604.000433] Out of memory: Killed process 1528871 (mariadbd) total-vm:2121936kB, anon-rss:177352kB, file-rss:2816kB, shmem-rss:0kB, UID:1002 pgtables:900kB oom_score_adj:0
Here you can see the peaks and troughs on the VPS graph:
